Being Alone Makes All the Difference

By Chu The Cud
October 9, 2026

We raise our children to live in a world without us, confident in their ability to stand alone.

And are left with the ignorance of what to do when they finally accomplish it.

But it wasn’t just what I taught them. It was who they became.

And, the house gets quieter.

Time slows down.

Now we are alone without instruction,
just experimentation.

The purpose of our purpose becomes the absence of purpose.

And therein lies the ignorance of preparation.

We taught them how to leave.

But who is teaching us how to remain?

© 2026 Chu The Cud
All Rights Reserved

Published by diestl

Freemason and father of two boys and a girl, living in Los Angeles, California. Emerson College Alumni always looking for a new adventure. Eight years of Catholic school, now Taoist leaning trying to be Zen in my journey of life.

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