As I approach the midpoint of my life, I find myself trying to balance the pull between machismo and compassion. It’s a quiet fight, but not without passion.
Letting go of the toughness that once defined me as a younger man isn’t easy. The old self resists, clinging to the pride and armor of youth, while the new self whispers of grace and restraint.
Yet, as knowledge and experience accumulate, I realize compassion, just as powerful offers a calmer strength. Forgiveness steadies the waters where pride once stirred them. Maybe that’s why societies have always looked to their elders, they’ve learned that wisdom isn’t loud, and true power isn’t forceful.
Time does not weaken the warrior, it teaches him where the battle truly lies.
Originally written 10-19-2015
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